The [(potentially) hard] questions.

Who are you sexually?

How did you become this person?

Do you like the sexual person you have become?

Are you proud of your sexual self?

Do you hate your sexual self?

What is the name of the best lover you’ve ever had?

Is the best lover you’ve ever had you…?

Where do you feel sexually inadequate?

Where do you feel sexually free?

Have you talked to Jesus about any of this?

What did he say?

Not a fan of Jesus? Cool.  Well, have you talked to any supernatural being about your sexual self?

Do you feel ashamed or guilty after you watch porn?

You don’t watch porn? Ok, well how about after you masturbate? You don’t masturbate either? Ok, send me an email so we can rectify that.

Who loved the way your genitals looked?

Who made you feel ashamed about the way your genitals looked?

What are your sexual fantasies? You don’t fantasize either. Send me that email ASAP.

Court is now in session.

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13 thoughts on “The [(potentially) hard] questions.

  1. Who are you sexually?
    Confident yet looking to expand personal boundaries.

    How did you become this person?
    A relationship where sex was under valued put things in perspective.

    Do you like the sexual person you have become?
    Love it.

    Are you proud of your sexual self?
    Majority of the time yes.

    Do you hate your sexual self?
    Hate no. But I have had “you know better then that” moments.

    What is the name of the best lover you’ve ever had?
    Out of respect for her I wont say.

    Is the best lover you’ve ever had you…?
    lol nope it’s a woman.

    Where do you feel sexually inadequate?
    Hmmm……I think I could be more of a talker or so I’ve been told.

    Where do you feel sexually free?
    Outside

    Have you talked to Jesus about any of this?
    Sometimes

    What did he say?
    Know that there is a time & place

    Not a fan of Jesus? Cool. Well, have you talked to any supernatural being about your sexual self?
    n/a

    Do you feel ashamed or guilty after you watch porn?
    Hmmm depends on the porn. These Internets makes too many things easily accessible.

    You don’t watch porn? Ok, well how about after you masturbate? You don’t masturbate either? Ok, send me an email so we can rectify that.
    Can I send you an email regardless? :)

    Who loved the way your genitals looked?
    Quite a few people actually One of the best verbal ego strokes ever.

    Who made you feel ashamed about the way your genitals looked?
    Never experienced that.

    What are your sexual fantasies? You don’t fantasize either. Send me that email ASAP
    LOL I have a few that deal with various roles of dominance. :)

  2. Noni Ayana says:

    Who are you sexually?
    Sexually I am an erotic goddess, in touch with my sexuality since self awareness was attainable.

    How did you become this person?
    I became this person by way of much self evaluation. Even as a child I often question what I observed, even if what I observed was of myself.

    Do you like the sexual person you have become?
    I am in love with the sexual person I have become

    Are you proud of your sexual self?
    I am indeed proud of my sexual self

    Do you hate your sexual self?
    At one point in my life I did hate my sexual self, due to the many subliminal and conscious messages in my surrounding environment suggesting me to do so.

    What is the name of the best lover you’ve ever had?
    I will not expose his name. But he knows his influence runs deep. I literally feel as though I can see his soul. This connection extends into the sexual energy we create together.

    Is the best lover you’ve ever had you…?
    I am indeed the most knowledgeable lover of myself, the most experienced of self. I’m not sure about the best. Some energy can only be created through connection of another.

    Where do you feel sexually inadequate?
    I don’t necessarily feel inadequate, but I do feel there are levels of ecstasy I have yet to experience.

    Where do you feel sexually free?
    I feel sexually free when I am with him. The most free I have felt in a very long time. With him I feel safe to explore.

    Have you talked to Jesus about any of this?
    Yes, we have talked. But it’s nothing he didn’t already know

    What did he say?
    He said, if you like it, I love it. Ha!

    Not a fan of Jesus? Cool. Well, have you talked to any supernatural being about your sexual self?

    Do you feel ashamed or guilty after you watch porn?
    I don’t feel guilty, but I’d rather watch myself on video.

    You don’t watch porn? Ok, well how about after you masturbate? You don’t masturbate either? Ok, send me an email so we can rectify that.

    I masturbate, but I found myself masturbating less since meeting him.

    Who loved the way your genitals looked?
    I love the way my genitals look.

    Who made you feel ashamed about the way your genitals looked?
    No one made me feel ashamed about how my genitals looked.

    What are your sexual fantasies? You don’t fantasize either. Send me that email ASAP.
    Of course I fantasize! My sexual fantasies usually include myself and my partner. Occasionally someone else I’m attracted to joins in. However, my fantasies are not always about physical sex, but about connection, the attraction, the heat, the intensity.

  3. fabulous says:

    First, let me say this is hard homework!

    Who are you sexually?
    Me.

    How did you become this person?
    It took lots of hard work and deep introspection to undo the damage of abuse and the self-doubt that followed in its wake.

    Do you like the sexual person you have become?
    I am happy that I enjoy sex and accept my passion in its varied forms.

    Are you proud of your sexual self?
    Yes.

    Do you hate your sexual self?
    No.

    What is the name of the best lover you’ve ever had?
    I cannot out my lover, but I know exactly who comes to mind. Could use a little right now. Should not have let that one get away…

    Is the best lover you’ve ever had you…?
    I am a fabulous lover for myself, but the things that I cannot do makes my partner—not necessarily better, but definitely desired—kissing my back, holding me, etc. (use your imagination!)

    Where do you feel sexually inadequate?
    Using toys is not my strong suit. I love to touch and taste so I have not made it a point to add other things—but I am open and sometimes stop in to Babeland for demos, but I have no one I want to play with right now.

    Where do you feel sexually free?
    My spirit is open. I love sex, nakedness, bodies, and stories. Let’s do it, do it, talk about it, and more.

    Have you talked to Jesus about any of this?
    No need. Sex is connection to the sacred or divine.

    What did he say?
    Not a fan of Jesus? Cool. Well, have you talked to any supernatural being about your sexual self?

    Do you feel ashamed or guilty after you watch porn?
    Nope. Porn is useful in its place and masturbation is mandatory!

    You don’t watch porn? Ok, well how about after you masturbate? You don’t masturbate either? Ok, send me an email so we can rectify that.

    Who loved the way your genitals looked?
    My favorite lover gave my genitals a name that makes me smile every time I think about it.

    Who made you feel ashamed about the way your genitals looked?
    NA

    What are your sexual fantasies? You don’t fantasize either. Send me that email ASAP.
    I will only give you one frame: being taken, melting into someone else’s desire, being seduced and taken with lots of talking, touching and penetrating in the process. I remember waking up and writing a poem that thoroughly described this frame and I stayed in bed a couple of hours longer as I savored the moments.

  4. shelita says:

    great questions once again… and once again I am getting caught off guard. I need to start reading your posts when I have time. Unlike most people you don’t have “quickie” type of questions which I completely enjoy. Ironically enough I was having a similar conversation with somebody earlier this week an it actually made me think long and hard about redefining my sexuality or the need for it all together. One thing I realize though I need to be the one that defines my sexuality and nobody else. Judge Harvey I am requesting a recess to regroup please.

  5. ChucksAndTies says:

    Who are you sexually?
    -I’m a sexual liberator, at least that is what I tell myself.

    How did you become this person?
    -No longer just doing sex, but also feeling sex. Understanding that there is no set way to be sexual.

    Do you like the sexual person you have become?
    -Hell yea. It took me a long time to be able to accept it, but once I did….It was a wrap.

    Are you proud of your sexual self?
    -89% of the time yes. There are moments when I feel bad about some of the thoughts that go through my head or the results when I act on these thoughts. But those moments only happen when the other person is in a relationship. Other than that, hell yea! I am proud to sexually liberate both men and women. I believe that I take away the scripts that come with gender and sex. In my opinion.

    Do you hate your sexual self?
    -Hmm, I should have read the questions first, cuz I answered this up there.

    What is the name of the best lover you’ve ever had?
    -Well…Depends upon what love you are talking about. The best head giver isn’t the best person to stimulate my mind. Just depends

    Is the best lover you’ve ever had you…?
    -Depends upon what aspect. I am up there though. That is for sure.

    Where do you feel sexually inadequate?
    In my feet. If I can get away with it, I would never show my feet.

    Where do you feel sexually free?
    In my mind, heart, and body. Especially my mind.

    Have you talked to Jesus about any of this?
    -Uhm…..na.

    What did he say?
    -I dunno, never talked to him about it. I wonder how that conversation would go though. Would he say I am not having sex the way ‘he’expected or would he applaud me for some of the stuff ‘he’ has seen late at night.

    Not a fan of Jesus? Cool. Well, have you talked to any supernatural being about your sexual self?
    -Na, no conversation. The universe knows what they are doing with me and my experiences in life.

    Do you feel ashamed or guilty after you watch porn?
    Naaaaaaaaaaaaa. Typically I feel pretty relaxed and stress-free

    You don’t watch porn? Ok, well how about after you masturbate? You don’t masturbate either? Ok, send me an email so we can rectify that.
    -Naaaaa. I love that. How else do you fall in love with yourself if you don’t know how you work.

    Who loved the way your genitals looked?
    -Meeeee :)

    Who made you feel ashamed about the way your genitals looked?
    -No one. Shoot, I wish they would try that. That session would be over before they could blink

    What are your sexual fantasies? You don’t fantasize either. Send me that email ASAP.
    -A warm rainy night on top of a rooftop, the glow of from the moon illuminating the sweat that is shared between us. I have more but I am not trying to get everyone happy in their pants from reading the comments lol.

  6. Who are you sexually?
    A Watcher of Signs. An Explorer of Truths. A Lover of Kisses and Cuddling. Shy at Start, Extroverted by End. Underestimated but Extravagant when given the Chance.

    How did you become this person?
    Being Aware of Myself and Paying Attention to Everything in the Shared Space – Energies, Vibes, Sounds, Expressions, Body Language, etc.

    Do you like the sexual person you have become?
    I don’t believe I dislike the sexual person I’ve become yet I know there is much more of my sexual self that I would like for me to feel comfortable showing to myself and others.

    Are you proud of your sexual self?
    I’m proud of where I’ve come from where I’ve been. Much life to live and experience.

    Do you hate your sexual self?
    Naw, I could improve more though. I do wish my sexual self would explore more. Be more assertive in expressing my desires when I want them. Mostly an issue with confidence. When confidence is in the shared space then my sexual self improves as a result.

    What is the name of the best lover you’ve ever had?
    Each lover brings a new aspect to the space where our bodies, our minds, our spirits meet and I don’t want to discredit any of them for the ways we connected.

    Is the best lover you’ve ever had you…?
    The love that happens with another doesn’t happen without me present so I guess the best lover I’ve ever had would be me because that’s how the connection begins and ends.

    Where do you feel sexually inadequate?
    Taking more time to linger. I could do better there. Fully appreciating the body more. A work in progress.

    Where do you feel sexually free?
    When the only expectation is to enjoy and make the most out of the connection and be present while we’re sharing and experiencing this moment together (even when the moment is with myself).

    Have you talked to Jesus about any of this?
    Naw, not the fundamentalist Jesus.

    What did he say?
    Not sure they are a dude persay

    Not a fan of Jesus? Cool. Well, have you talked to any supernatural being about your sexual self?
    Since I believe every type of connection is a spiritual one, I’ve had several conversations with the Great Spirit about my sexual self (mostly because the Great Spirit is an extension of self and I talk to myself about my sexual self quite often).

    Do you feel ashamed or guilty after you watch porn?
    Nope, not at all.

    You don’t watch porn? Ok, well how about after you masturbate? You don’t masturbate either? Ok, send me an email so we can rectify that.
    Nope, I don’t feel a need to be apologetic for trying to build a deeper connection/realization with my sexual self. Can’t possibility communicate my desires to anyone else if I don’t know them.

    Who loved the way your genitals looked?
    I actually kinda dig how my piece looks.

    Who made you feel ashamed about the way your genitals looked?
    Nobody, that I can remember. And if they tried, I probably wasn’t listening (which is probably why I can’t remember if so).

    What are your sexual fantasies? You don’t fantasize either. Send me that email ASAP.
    I have numerous. Most under a brightly lite moon with humming involved and laughter and a hand placed gently on my chest where my heart is, mine where their heart is, creating poetry with our hearts, masterpieces with our bodies and a dance with our souls. Some are rather raunchy or kinky, some are rather romantic, some are rather long, some are rather short. yet all of them speak to me somehow and come back to sex being art that is being created by those involved.

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