And here it is, yet another snow day. Let us jump into some sexual relationship conversations, shall we?
It is no secret how I feel about monogamous relationships - I think they’re a tad bit ridiculous. However, I realize and respect that monogamy is a major desire for a lot of folks. And I’m not knocking ANYONE who HAS a healthy, empowering, freedom-giving, awesome-sex having monogamous relationship. I just hope that folks dig down real deep and ask themselves why they desire monogamy (or anything in life for that matter). Is it because you watched
mommy or daddy cheat and you think monogamy is the best way to circumvent that hurt and pain? Is it because you’re a jealous person and you think jealousy in a relationship is sexy? Is it because you think people who are not monogamous are whores? Is it because your God and/or spiritual text said you have to be…? Or the one I love hearing the most (insert sarcasm here): if you want to have sex with other people you should stay single.
Scenario: You’re single. You meet someone, have kick a$$ conversation, and share a few flirtatious exchanges. An unspecified about of time goes by. You look up and find yourself wanting to throw your drawls/panties/manties/underwear at them (i.e. you’re sexually attracted to them). Before anything pops off, you find out that they are in an otherwise monogamous relationship but are allowed to have a “hall-pass” so to speak. This hall-pass allows them the freedom to have safe sex with other people as long as they communicate this desire to their partner (as outlined by their relationship standards). Would you have sex with them? Why or why not? Would you feel bad for doing it? Would you want to verify with their partner that this was some real sh!t they had going on? Would you feel liberated about it?
Court is now in session!